Why Single Women in Philly Hate to See Their Friends Date

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There’s no worse feeling in the world than seeing all your single friends start to date.  Of course, deep inside you want to be happy for them, you really do… but you know everything changes the moment they meet a new guy.  You no longer have your bestie by your side because she’s too busy going out on dates with this new guy.  It changes everything about your friendship, and you definitely won’t be as close as you used to be.

You become deathly afraid of being the last single friend left in your circle of friends, or maybe that doesn’t affect you.  Maybe you’re sick of all the comments your friends make.  You might not be ready to be in a relationship yet, or maybe you are a little bit jealous.  Why can’t your single friends just stay single?

We get it—we hear you—we feel your pain. Today, our King of Prussia matchmakers will show you why single women in Philly hate to see their friends date.

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1. You lose your single sisters.

When you’ve been single for a very long time and have single friends, you become like sisters.  But now that you’re the last singleton, you’re going to be alone.  Previously, there were never solo nights because you could always round up the gals for a get together.  You were not bothered by things like dating because you had your sisters by your side.  You actually got together and mocked all your coupled up friends with silly jokes.

2. You have no one to hang out with.

The trouble with all your single friends starting to date is that they’ll be doing just that, going on dates with the new guy.  Prior to your gals coupling up, you ladies would hit the bars together every single weekend and catch movies on Sundays.  Unfortunately for you, Friday nights are no longer nights out on the town because all your friends are going out on dates.  Of course, some of them might invite you to tag along, but you’ll just be the third wheel, and who has time for that?  That leaves you home alone on Friday night twiddling your thumbs, and by twiddling your thumb, we mean swiping left and right on Tinder.

3. You’re no longer close.

When you’re lucky enough to have good friends, you become like sisters, so close they’re family to you (literally).  You’re always messaging each other, commenting on Facebook posts, calling throughout the day, and Snapchatting every now and then.  You have fun nights on the town and cozy nights in at home.  You fight and make up, sort of like a couple.  The only difference is they are your best friends.  But when your best friends start to date, they no longer do those things with you because now they’re doing all those things with the boyfriend.  Their time is spent sending messages to their new love interest instead of you.

4. You lose your plus one.

Have you ever been out to dinner with friends only to realize you’re the only single person at the table?  Yikes, we know how awkward that can feel.  They tell couples stories, share food with each other, and do romantic things… all of which makes you want to vomit because you’re single.  Now that you’re the only single one left, you can’t bring anyone along to those get togethers.  You previously brought a friend with you, but now it’s just you on your own.  This is what happens when all your single friends start to date.

5. They don’t pay much attention to you.

You finally got Diana to hang out with you on a Friday night so you would think she would give you her undivided attention, but you got it all wrong.  She might as well not even be there.  She has her hands glued to her phone the entire night chatting with this new man she’s dating.  Your friends do see you from time to time but are always distracted sending flirty messages and lovey emojis to their new guy.

Are you tired of being the only single one left?  Do you want to have a relationship just like your friends but don’t know how to find it?  Contact our King of Prussia matchmakers and let us introduce you to relationship-minded men in Philadelphia.  We’ve helped thousands of single women in Philly find their Prince Charming and we’re confident we can help you too!  To reserve your FREE (90-minute) matchmaking consultation, simply fill out the confidential form at the top of the page today!


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